On Our Journey Home
 
Romance God's Way
Ed. 6, Vol. 4
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April 7 , 2006
The Staci Stallings Newsletter

Table of Contents

Drowning Lessons

Insights

Cyberserial Chapters

New Book Available

Quote from on High

Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal among you, which comes upon you for your testing, as though some strange thing were happening to you; but to the degree that you share the sufferings of Christ, keep on rejoicing, so that alos at the revelation of His glory, you may rejoice with exultation.

--1 Peter 4:12-13

Wisdom of the Ages

There is grace and forgiveness, mercy and healing. He'll meet you wherever you are. Cry out to Jesus!
--Third Day


A Life Question

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Drowning Lessons

Any lifeguard will tell you the worst thing someone that the lifeguard is trying to save can do is to "help." A drowning person in a panicked attempt to "save" themselves by thrashing about can end up taking the lifeguard down with them. It's a lesson all of us need to learn no matter how good we are at swimming in spiritual waters.

Many people ask: "What is my purpose here on earth?" They go through various exercises and workshops to find out what their purpose is. I will save you some time and money if you, too, are asking this age-old question.

You have one purpose here on earth, and it can be summed up in two words: to learn.

You were sent here to learn-to learn about yourself-your capabilities, your liabilities, your strengths, your weaknesses, your abilities, and your limitations. You were also sent here to learn about and how to deal with others-those who are easy to love and those for whom God's mercy will have to be super-abundant for their forgiveness to be obtained.

Nonetheless, you were mostly sent here to learn about God and His unending, unfathomable, unstoppable, overwhelming, unbelievable love for you.

One of the biggest lessons and one of the hardest to take and accept is what has been called a disruptive moment. These are the times in your life when you have been easily walking next to the water when suddenly something pushes you in to the deep end.

This something might be someone. It might be an event or an illness or death or a sudden change that blows gaping holes in your belief that all is right with your world.

Suddenly you are buffeted-slapped on every side with wave after wave of despair, doubt, anger, hopelessness, helplessness, grief, anxiety, and fear so strong it pulls you under like a rip tide.

I believe what we are sent here to learn is that it is precisely in these times of trial and fear that we learn the real depth of God. The Almighty Lifeguard takes hold of us, rather than us holding Him.

The problem here is that many of us continue to struggle. We continue to try to save ourselves even as the waves wash over us time and again. What God says to us at these moments is exactly what the lifeguard would say to the drowning person. "Relax. Let Me do it. Do not rely on your strength, trust in Mine."

Your purpose here is primarily to learn that one lesson as deeply as possible. When the storms blow, quit struggling. Trust the Lifeguard.
He has the strength you need. Relax, and let Him work in your life, and you will surely see wonders come from the moments you thought you were destined to drown. By your own effort, you would have. In His strength, however, you will be brought out of the waters of chaos and confusion into a new life you can only know when you have felt both the rip tide and His marvelous, sustaining strength.

In your weakness, His strength can be made manifest. Trust it for it will save you-especially when you feel you are drowning.

by: Staci Stallings

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Insights

I found a book. Imagine that! No, seriously. This is a book you MUST get for yourself, your spouse, your kids... It's called "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. This book is awesome in that it explains that there are five "languages" we speak to each other to communicate our love. The problem is some of us speak one language and some speak another.

When one person is giving "words of appreciation" love because that's either what they were taught or because that is their primary language, that may or may not be their partner's language. According to Dr. Chapman, you may give all four other languages, but if you don't give your spouse the ONE that he/she speaks, they may well misunderstand your efforts.

Trust me, get this book. It will change how you love!

Staci

Staci Stallings Cyberserial

Dreams by Starlight

To get chapters 1-Epilogue, go to:

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"...brought to life with an artist's touch." --Joyce Handzo

Now Available from Staci Stallings

Life has done its best to knock Beth McCasland to the ground, and the truth is: it's done a pretty good job of keeping her there. Stuck in a minimum-wage job with a young daughter counting on her, Beth does her best to stay standing under the weight of it all because she knows God is on her side. Then one night she gets the chance to be an angel to another of life's weary travelers. For once hope has never looked so real.

Cowboy is a grace-filled story about the power of giving everything to God and how a simple act of compassion can change lives forever. Emotional, soothing, and heart-wrenching, Cowboy is infused with the message that no matter who we are and no matter what life has thrown at us, we never have to walk alone.

Staci Stallings has intertwined the loss and grief of two characters into a sweet love story. Full of truths and illustrations of God's grace, Cowboy will capture a reader's heart. Stallings has peppered in song lyrics that strike a beautiful chord. Eileen Key

A romantic, entertaining and poignant book about love developed across the miles. And, perhaps more importantly, of the power of prayer to change lives. Elaina M. Avalos

From Cowboy...

"Hi." Ashton barely got the greeting out as panic attacked him. What was he doing? She was going to think he was an idiot. On the table his hands spun the empty coffee cup back and forth as he fought to distance himself from everything in his soul. The glance up was only that. "Umm, did you mean what you said...about listening?"

"Yeah," she said slowly. "I did."

His hand traced down his jeans, pushing them down because it seemed that they and everything else was coiling around him in a grip he couldn't break. "Well, I was thinking if you're not too busy..." His gaze slid across the restaurant to the other customers, and embarrassment battled with his need to breathe.

Without question she slid into the booth and folded her hands. "I have all the time in the world."

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